الاتيكيت في الاسلام
الاداب الاسلامية من الحديث و السنة
حُسن الخلق
عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ: أكمل المؤمنين إيماناً أحسنهم خلقاً، وخياركم خياركم لنسائهم"رواه الترمذي
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The most perfect man in his faith among the believers is the one whose behaviour is most excellent; and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives."
حديث عائشة قالت: سمعت رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- يقول: "إن المؤمن ليدرك بحسن خلقه درجة الصائم القائم". وصححه الألباني
Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reporte
I heard Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying: "A believer will attain by his good behaviour the rank of one who prays during the night and observes fasting during the day."
وَعَنْ أَبِي اَلدَّرْدَاءِ - رضى الله عنه - قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ مَا مِنْ شَيْءٍ فِي اَلْمِيزَانِ أَثْقَلُ مِنْ حُسْنِ اَلْخُلُقِ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ, وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ
Abu ad-Darda’ (RAA) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“The heaviest thing which will be put on the believer’s scale (on the Day of Resurrection) will be good morals.” Related by Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi who graded it as Sahih.
قال تعالى :(وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلى خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ) (4) سورة القلم
(And indeed, you are of a great moral character)
الاحسان
قال تعالى :(وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ ﴾ آل عمران: 148
And Allah loves the charitable )Al Emran134)
قال تعالى: (وَأَحْسِنْ كَمَا أَحْسَنَ اللَّهُ إِلَيْكَ).77 القصص
And do good as Allah has done good to you
اداب المجلس
وعن ابن مسعود رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: "إذا كنتم ثلاثة، فلا يتناجى اثنان دون الآخر حتى تختلطوا بالناس، من أجل أن ذلك يحزنه" ((متفق عليه)).
Ibn Mas'ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When three of you are together, two of you must not converse privately ignoring the third till the number increases, lest the third should be grieved."
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
اداب السلام
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " تَصَافَحُوا يَذْهَبِ الْغِلُّ وَتَهَادَوْا تَحَابُّوا وَتَذْهَبِ الشَّحْنَاءُ "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ata ibn Abi Muslim that Abdullah al-Khurasani said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Shake hands and rancour will disappear. Give presents to each other and love each other and enmity will disappear
قال صلى الله عليه وسلم : (يسلم الراكب على الماشي، والماشي على القاعد، والقليل على الكثير ويسلم الصغير على الكبير ) ((متفق عليه))
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, 'A rider should greet a pedestrian; a pedestrian should greet one who is sitting; and a small group should greet a large group (of people).''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم :(حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي ثَوْرٍ، عَنْ سِمَاكٍ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ: رُدُّوا السَّلاَمَ عَلَى مَنْ كَانَ يَهُودِيًّا، أَوْ نَصْرَانِيًّا، أَوْ مَجُوسِيًّا، ذَلِكَ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ يَقُولُ: {وَإِذَا حُيِّيتُمْ بِتَحِيَّةٍ فَحَيُّوا بِأَحْسَنَ مِنْهَا أَوْ رُدُّوهَا}.
bn 'Abbas said, "Return the greeting to whomever it is, Jew, Christian, or Magian. That is because Allah says, 'When you are greeted with a greeting, greet with one better than it or return it
اداب زيارة المريض
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ " إِذَا دَخَلْتُمْ عَلَى الْمَرِيضِ فَنَفِّسُوا لَهُ فِي الأَجَلِ فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ لاَ يَرُدُّ شَيْئًا وَهُوَ يَطِيبُ بِنَفْسِ الْمَرِيضِ " .
It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“When you enter upon one who is sick, cheer him up and give him hope of a long life, for that does not change anything (of the Divine Decree), but it will cheer the heart of the one who is sick.”
اداب التعامل
قال صلى الله عليه و سلم :"تَبَسُّمُك فِي وَجْهِ أَخِيك صَدَقَةٌ”
Abu Dharr narrated that the Messenger of Allah said
"Your smiling in the face of your brother is charity
اداب الزيارة
قال تعالى:"لاَ تَدْخُلُوا بُيُوتًا غَيْرَ بُيُوتِكُمْ حَتَّى تَسْتَأْنِسُوا وَتُسَلِّمُوا عَلَى أَهْلِهَا” النور اية 27
you who have believed, do not enter houses other than your own houses until you ascertain welcome and greet their inhabitants. That is best for you; perhaps you will be reminded
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم :(الاستئذان ثلاثا فإن لم يؤذن لك فارجع)
Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Permission (for entering the house) should be sought three times and if permission is granted to you (then get in). otherwise go back.
اداب الطعام
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم "يَا غُلَامُ سَمِّ اللَّهَ وَكُلْ بِيَمِينِكَ وَكُلْ مِمَّا يَلِيكَ"
Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, 'O boy! Mention the Name of Allah and eat with your right hand, and eat of the dish what is nearer to you."
قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم : ( إذا شرب أحدكم فلا يتنفس في الإناء ) رواه البخاري ومسلم
Massinger of Allah said : When you drink (water), do not breath in the vessel
اداب الحوارو التعامل مع الجار و الضيف
عن طريق أبي هريرة- رضي الله تعالى عنه، قال : روى عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال : ( من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليقل خيراً أو ليصمت، ومن كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليكرم ضيفه، ومن كان بالله واليوم الآخر فليكرم جاره )
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "He who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him show hospitality to his guest; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain good relation with kins; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent."
اداب الحوار
قال تعالى :(وَقُولُوا لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًا ) سورة البقرة 83
(speak to people good words)
اداب الجار
(وعنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: " لا يمنع جار جارة أن يغرز خشبة في جداره" ثم يقول أبو هريرة: ما لي أراكم عنها معرضين! والله لأرمين بها بين أكتافكم. ((متفق عليه)).
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "No one should prohibit his neighbour from placing a peg in his wall". Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) added: Now I see you turning away from this (Sunnah), but by Allah, I shall go on proclaiming it.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
الاداب العامة
عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: ((من حسن إسلام المرء: تركُه ما لا يعنيه)) حديث حسن؛ رواه الترمذي
Abu Hurairah (RAA) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“A sign of man's good observance of Islam (his piety) is to keep away from that which does not concern him.”
Related by At-Tirmidhi who graded it as Hadith Hasan
النهي عن بعض التصرفات السيئة
عن ابي هريرة رضي الله عنه : ( آية المنافق ثلاث ، إذا حدث كذب ، وإذا وعد أخلف ، وإذا اؤتمن خان )، وحديث عبد الله بن عمرو في الصحيحين أيضا فيه زيادة : ( وإذا خاصم فجر ، وإذا عاهد غدر )
Abu Hurairah (RAA) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“There are three signs of a hypocrite: when he speaks, he tells lies; when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and when he is entrusted, he betrays his trust.” Agreed upon
اداب الحديث
( مَا يَلْفِظُ مِن قَوْلٍ إِلا لَدَيْهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ )
Man does not utter any word except that with him is an observer prepared [to record]
النهي عن السخرية من الاخرين
قال تعالى :﴿ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آَمَنُوا لَا يَسْخَرْ قَومٌ مِنْ قَوْمٍ عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِنْهُمْ وَلَا نِسَاءٌ مِنْ نِسَاءٍ عَسَى أَنْ يَكُنَّ خَيْرًا مِنْهُنَّ وَلَا تَلْمِزُوا أَنْفُسَكُمْ وَلَا تَنَابَزُوا بِالْأَلْقَابِ بِئْسَ الِاسْمُ الْفُسُوقُ بَعْدَ الْإِيمَانِ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَتُبْ فَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الظَّالِمُونَ (11 الحجرات
O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers
النهي عن ظن السوء و التجسس و الغيبة
قال تعالى :( أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آَمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلَا يَغْتَبْ بَعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَحِيمٌ (12 الحجرات
O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.
الاداب الاسلامية في التعامل
قال تعالى :( خُذِ الْعَفْوَ وَأْمُرْ بِالْعُرْفِ وَأَعْرِضْ عَنِ الْجَاهِلِينَ) 199 الاعراف
Take what is given freely, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant
قال تعالى :(وَلَا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا السَّيِّئَةُ ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ ( فصلت 34
And not equal are the good deed and the bad. Repel [evil] by that [deed] which is better; and thereupon the one whom between you and him is enmity [will become] as though he was a devoted friend
قال تعالى :(وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلَامًا) 63 الفرقان
And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace,
عَن النَّبِيِّ -صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ -قَالَ: " الْمُسْلِمُ مَنْ سَلِمَ الْمُسْلِمُونَ مِنْ لِسَانِهِ وَيَدِهِ،
"A Muslim is the one who avoids harming Muslims with his tongue or his hands.
اداب التعامل مع المسيئين
قال تعالى : (وَاصْبِرْ عَلَىٰ مَا يَقُولُونَ وَاهْجُرْهُمْ هَجْرًا جَمِيلًا) سورة المزمل (10)
And have patience with what they say, and leave them with noble dignity
اداب العيد
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